بعد أن علمنا من نكون وكيف شكلتنا الحياة يمكننا ان نرى الاّن ان الرجال الذين جاءوا الى حياتنا أصابونا بالاحباط.
Given who we were and how life had shaped us,  we can now see  that the men who might have come into our lives  would have thwarted us.