you feel like you are always having to defend yourself and and if you don't then sometimes you feel like you're looked down upon by people that go back to work and so you're just wasting your time at home
The people that return to work sometimes treat you as a lesser person if you don't justify yourself.
You never have to defend yourself because people that go back to work wouldn't dare look down upon you.
A good joke sets up a chain of logic.
A person is upright behind the bar.
The woman is walking in the park with a dog
Two women are outside in the rain.
A surfer rides his board on a wave.
Nobody is sitting