And the problem, as you might feel, is that we were down, we were depressed, we were looking at him as a problem, not as a son, not from a positive perspective.
И проблемът, както сигурно усещате, беше, че бяхме сломени, депресирани, гледахме на него като на проблем, не като на наш син, не от положителна перспектива.