I wrote a book, I published a theory, but something was not okay -- and what it was is that, if I roughly took the people I interviewed and divided them into people who really have a sense of worthiness -- that's what this comes down to, a sense of worthiness -- they have a strong sense of love and belonging -- and folks who struggle for it, and folks who are always wondering if they're good enough.
Ma kirjutasin raamatu, avaldasin teooria, ent miski oli valesti... asi oli selles, et kui ma võtaksin laias laastus inimesed, keda ma intervjueerisin ja jagaksin nad inimesteks, kes tõesti tajuvad oma eneseväärtust - sest see ongi põhiline, iseenda väärtuse tajumine - siis nemad tunnetavad kindlalt armastust ja kuulumist - ja inimesteks, kes püüdlevad selle poole, ja inimesteks, kes alati kahtlevad, kas nad on piisavalt head.