And so to avoid idealizing, you have to balance them out by remembering their frown, not just their smile, how bad they made you feel, the fact that after the lovemaking, you got lost coming down the mountain, argued like crazy and didn't speak for two days.
Så for at undgå idealisering, må du vende balancen ved at huske deres panderynken, ikke bare deres smil, hvor dårligt de fik dig til at føle dig, og det faktum, at I efter elskoven farede vild på vej ned ad bjerget, skændtes voldsomt og ikke talte sammen i to dage.