And they know how to bring it back because they have demystified one big myth, which is the myth of spontaneity, which is that it's just going to fall from heaven while you're folding the laundry like a deus ex machina, and in fact they understood that whatever is going to just happen in a long-term relationship, already has.
og grunden til at de ved det, er fordi de har afmystificeret en stor myte, som er myten om spontanitet, en myte der fortæller at det bare falder ned fra himlen,  mens man folder vasketøjet ligesom en deus ex machina, og de forstår faktisk at alt det, der kommer til at ske i et langt forhold allerede er sket.