But how do you reconcile this idea of it being bad to think of someone as a "loser," with the idea that a lot of people like, of seizing control of your life, and that a society that encourages that, perhaps has to have some winners and losers?
Hvordan forener du denne opfattelse af, at nogle -- at det er dårligt at se på nogle som tabere, med den idé, som mange synes om, om at tage styringen i sit liv. Og at et samfund, der opmuntrer hertil, måske er nødt til at have vindere og tabere?