And when I began to listen to the sexlessness of the couples that I work with, I sometimes would hear people say, "I want more sex," but generally, people want better sex, and better is to reconnect with that quality of aliveness, of vibrancy, of renewal, of vitality, of Eros, of energy that sex used to afford them, or that they've hoped it would afford them.
Og da jeg begyndte at lytte til seksualitetsmanglen hos de par som jeg arbejder med, hørte jeg nogle gange folk sige, "Jeg vil have mere sex," men generelt set vil folk have bedre sex, og bedre er at genfinde den livskvalitet, af liv, af fornyelse, af vitalitet,  af seksualdrift, af energi som sex plejede at give dem, eller som de håbede det ville give dem.