Watching him reshape his identity during his illness, learning to witness and accept his pain, talking together through his choices -- those experiences taught me that resilience does not mean bouncing back to where you were before, or pretending that the hard stuff isn't hard.
دیدن بازسازی هویتش درطول بیماری، یادگرفتن مواجهه و قبول دردش، گفتگو درباره انتخاب‌هایش -- همه این تجربه‌ها به من یاد داد که سختی به معنای مثل قبل رفتار کردن نیست یا تظاهر به اینکه سختی، سخت نیست.