And the problem, as you might feel, is that we were down, we were depressed, we were looking at him as a problem, not as a son, not from a positive perspective.
و همانطورى كه ممكن است حس كرده باشيد، مشكل، اين بود كه ما افسرده بوديم و روحيه‌‌مون پايين بود، ما به او بعنوان مشكل نگاه مى‌‌كرديم، نه بعنوان پسرمون، نه از ديد مثبت.