Not really.  Look Annie I love you.  Let's leave that out of it.  I don't want to be someone you're settling for.  I don't want to be someone anyone settles for.  I have a life insurance policy I'm fully invested in growth stocks I have a paid subscription to Home Rox Office I have no sexual diseases I have been steadily employed in a part of the economy that isn't soft I have expectation in the way of inherited wealth I dress nicely I am a member of the private sector an independent voter I don't watch Monday Night Football the only thing wrong with me is that I am allergic to wheat strawberries penicillin pollen nuts and wool.  There are plenty of women who see me as the brass ring.  If you don't -- marriage is hard enough without bringing such low expectations into it isn't it?