Why is there no greater love than to lay down your life (John 15:13)?

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In John 15:13 Jesus states, “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” The statement upholds sacrificial love as the ultimate expression of love. In saying this, Jesus prepares His disciples for His crucifixion and shows them what He meant when He told them to “love each other as I have loved you” (verse 12\).  
  

All true love involves some kind of sacrifice, as the lover seeks to benefit the loved one. It stands to reason, then, that the greatest love of all would involve a total laying down of one’s life for the loved one. God, who is love, revealed His love for mankind through sacrifice (John 3:16; Romans 5:8\). Sacrifice is paramount in 1 John 4:10: “This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.” The sacrificial love of God, also known as [agape love](agape-love.html), stands as the “greater love” and is how the Source of Love saved us.  
  

Another reason why laying down one’s life is considered the greatest love is its counterintuitive nature. Humans tend to prefer taking rather than giving, so instances of selflessness leave us amazed. When a father dives into raging water to rescue his child, when a woman asks the doctor to prioritize her child, or when a soldier falls on a grenade to save his brothers\-in\-arms, we’re humbled and awed. In the modern concept of love, the focus often gravitates toward self\-satisfaction, and in many circles the idea of sacrifice is considered unnecessary or even repugnant. In contrast to our diluted version of love, agape shines brightly.  
  

For Christians, the expression of this “greater love” isn’t limited to literally laying down our lives. We don’t have to wait for a grandiose moment of sacrifice to love others as Jesus loves us. Our daily lives should be characterized by selflessness and deference, a denying of ourselves for the good of others. Such displays of love should be common in the body of Christ (John 13:35\). We are called to follow Christ, which includes showing love in the way He demonstrated.  
  

Other portions of Scripture also reflect the truth of John 15:13\. For instance, Philippians 2:3–4 instructs us to “do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility, value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.” Romans 12:10 urges Christians to “be devoted to one another in love” and to “honor one another above \[them]selves.” The Christian lifestyle does not nurture self\-aggrandizement but centers on humility and self\-denial.  
  

It is worth delving into the word *friend* in John 15:13\. Are we only supposed to love our friends? Wouldn’t this contradict other passages like Matthew 5:46–47? In the context of John 15:13, the friendship Jesus refers to is the relationship He had with the disciples. Yet we know that Jesus did not just die for His “friends” alone. Romans 5:6 says, “Christ died for the ungodly.” So, the principle of laying down one’s life extends further than just benefiting friends. We show love even to enemies.  
  

There is no greater love than laying down one’s life for others. Jesus exemplified this love for us, and we are called to walk in the same selfless love.  
  

