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37 Baltimore, MD Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:28am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So the short run down of me:
Dog Dad
Drummer in a cover band
One of my friends described me as the salt-of-the-earth kinda guy.
Awful at gardening but trying to raise blueberries
I tend to be a realist. Sometimes people view me as being a pessimist - which I'm not. Blame my engineering background for the analyzation of forces in a given situation.

This is probably the best way to describe how I go about dating: I am not interested in convincing someone. Courting - absolutely. Convincing - that's a colossal waste of time.

I am not looking for a fling nor some arm candy for the holidays - and hope you are not either. I actually want to meet and will lose patience quickly with those who are only looking to email. I've been on and off here for about two years and getting a little (read that as A LOT) tired of the merry-go-round of serial dating. Being persistent is the only way you get what you are looking for outta life, right.

.....oh & if you are 5'10" or under, I can pass the 3" heel test. :-)
What I’m doing with my life
I spent the last bunch of years working as a mechanical designer and going to college part-time. I left the full-time gig, in January, to focus on the education stuff. My career was stalled, the job was very stressful and taking a toll on my health so I decided to bolt.

I'm also a drummer in a cover band. This is our guy's night out type thing - just our way to blow off steam.

Other spare time activities are transporting dogs for a couple of rescues and running (I just finished my second marathon and debating doing a third).
I’m really good at
Opening Jars
Falling while ice skating.
Falling while skiing
Sense of direction. I've recently added the greater San Diego area to a growing list of places I can navigate, in general, sans electronic devices
Making banana pancakes - FROM SCRATCH (none of this Bisquick stuff with a banana mashed up in it)

One more thing I am good at:
S = 8
T = 9
A = 4
L = 7
E = 5
Thus: STEAL = 89547
.....I love how people get this wrong and then say its of utmost importance I also have it wrong.....and they are generally the people who say their confidence is "very, very, high". It strikes me as self-awareness is not one of their strong suits. (Yes, some guys actually read the answers to your questions - and occasionally go beyond the "About Sex" questions.)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Maybe my eyes - they are blue. I was told sometimes I have a very stoic facial expression.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: lately some type of textbook but I do try to pick up the odd WSJ or Atomic Ranch. I am a regular reader of Classic / Grassroots Motorsports.
Movies: I love action movies like Boondock Saints, and comedies.
Shows: I don't really watch much TV. In fact, I don't own a DVR!
....and no I am not one of those people who says, "I don't watch TV" and then watches the sh!t on the computer via Netflix. :-P
Music: I grew up listening to rock & roll so that's my default setting. I do listen to a bit of everything though.
Food: I would say some sort of Italian dish will always win me over. Maybe Mexican as well. I HATE eggplant. I've had it several times, different ways, and it always turns my stomach. Carrot Cake & Cannolis might be my favorite desserts.
The six things I could never do without
My dog Scotty - he gives me a reason to laugh nearly every day and a reason to drag my butt outta bed (mainly because I know he has to pee)
Music - love jamming with the guys & I dig my Sonor drums
A comfy pair of jeans
Chipotle - nothing beats a 3000 calorie burrito after a long run.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How much longer do I have to wait for Justin Beiber to transform into Leif Garrett? (Although maybe this is starting to happen....)

If everyone on here thinks their confidence is higher than average, wouldn't that really make everyone's confidence.....average? Perhaps a paradigm shift is in order.

Why do my black socks get holes faster than the blue ones?

How is it that all this social media can make us so socially inept?

Are there really as many guys (on here) with shirtless bathroom selfies as there are girls with pictures at Machu Picchu?
On a typical Friday night I am
Ghost ridin' the whip. Nah actually it's like what it says on a box of puddin: "cook and chill - and baby that's what I do every night, I cook - 'n then I chiiiilll." Saturday night is a little different.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was once set up on a blind date by a divorce attorney.
If you don't find that ironic and funny as hell, I'm not the guy for you. (Just for clarification - I've been engaged but never married. The divorce attorney just happens to live in my neighborhood.)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. are actually looking for a relationship - for the right reasons. Not because you want to duck the, "So, are seeing someone?" question you are going to get at the holidays......or you've spent the entire summer in a bridesmaid dress and are starting to feel left out..... understand, I have a dog; he's not going anywhere.

Other than that:
No kids, but wants them
Self Awareness
(I didn't think these three would be a difficult combination to find but man, am I wrong.)

I own a house in Baltimore. While sometimes I day-dream of California livin', the reality is unless an absolutely perfect opportunity landed in my lap, I'm here to stay indefinitely. Having said that: you; be looking to put down roots. I'm really not interested in getting to know someone who is looking at Baltimore as a stop on the way to someplace else.

I do have to say, it's not a deal breaker, but tattoos just aren't my thing. Why put a bumper sticker on a Ferrari?

FYI: I am more likely to return an email than I am to email. In nearly two years, dates with someone I've emailed first have been few and far between. It's kinda not worth the effort to me anymore. I'm beginning to think this site just inundates women with assholes only looking to get laid. And note I used the term "effort". That's because the odd chance I do email someone, I actually spend time crafting an individual (i.e. non-form) letter. It gets time consuming for little results.

However, just as the girls say, please say a little more than, "Hi" or "How are you?"