I wonder if I found men attractive in the same manner I do women if I'd feel the guilt I do..the compulsion is pretty exclusively about actual acts.

Even when I masterbate-when I think about women it's everything, face, body, smell, touch etc. When i think about men it's about the penis/sexual acts.

How do you combat the urges? Is it okay to give into them? Does understanding them lead to acceptance?...such a mind twist