Seducing an Older Woman

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make the move

After analyzing all three factors, I realized that if I was going to capture Sophia's intrigue, it wouldn't be through my appearance (it's a given that I'm attractive), but rather through her mind.

In order to approach Sophia in a successful manner that would keep her interested in me long enough for her to entertain the thought of making love to me, I would need an original icebreaker, and then manage to hold a stimulating conversation.

Contrary to my usual approach, I did not use any compliments with Sophia. I did not want to sound like a little boy asking for candy. Instead, I looked straight into her eyes (not her breasts), and let my eyes explain how much I desired to smell her skin and feel her touch my body.

the right icebreaker

I finally stood from my stool and walked directly to Sophia. Here's how the conversation developed:

The Player: Hi, I couldn't help but notice that you've been alone for the past twenty minutes, so I thought I'd join you for a drink.

Sophia: Oh, why thank you, that's very nice of you.

The Player: So what name do you belong to, if you don't mind me asking?

Sophia: My name's Sophia.

The Player: Sophia? That's means "wise" in Latin, a very classy name, I'm sure it represents your character very nicely. Well, Sophia, how would you like to offer me a drink?

Sophia: (Laughing) Sure, I've never been asked that before. What will you have?

The Player: I'll have a dark rum and coke (never order a beer).

Sophia: (Looking at the bartender) One rum and coke with dark rum, and one vodka cranberry please. (Looks right back into my eyes) By the way, what is your name?

The Player: David.

Sophia: That's a very sexy name. I've always loved the name David.

patience is a virtue

While waiting to be served, I pulled out a pack of Davidoff cigarettes (that always impresses the ladies) and offered one to Sophia. I asked her why she was alone. Her answer didn't surprise me; she told me that being single and going straight home from work can become quite boring. At this point, the bartender served our drinks.

The Player: I don't understand, can you please explain how a woman of your stature can be single with so many available men?

Sophia: I intimidate most men, either they think I'm married, or they're just too shy to approach me. Usually those that do are much younger, and that doesn't really interest me.

The Player: Really? How old are you?

Sophia: How old do you think I am?

The Player: I'd say around twenty-eight (yeah right).

Sophia: Oh that's so sweet of you. I'm actually thirty-six.

The Player: (Pretending to be surprised) Really, I would never have guessed. So why aren't you interested in younger men?

Sophia: I don't think they're sexually mature. By the way, how old are you?.

The Player: I'm twenty-nine. (At this point, I'm thinking, Wait until I show you my signature move #2 ).

Sophia: Oh, I'm sorry I didn't mean to offend you.

The Player: It's quite all right, you didn't offend me. However, you managed to arouse a curious challenge within me.

Sophia: Really, what kind of a challenge?

The Player: Ah, I can't tell you, unless you manage to keep my interest level high for the rest of the night. (I looked at the bartender, and motioned for another round of drinks.)

So, do you think she invited me over to her place?

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