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39 San Diego, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:52pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Obviously I am single and looking, same as you I presume if you're on this site. To get right to the point, all that I'm looking for is a nice gal. Plain and simple, but not in the literal sense. Snobs, religious zealots and gold diggers are not my cup of tea so they can go ahead and skip on to the next guy. Bonne chance ladies.

My last girlfriend was caucasian but as far as ethnicity is concerned I'm pretty open-minded. I'm obviously Asian but unlike a majority of my white friends, I don't suffer from yellow fever.

I was self-employed and owned my very own bar/eatery in North Park until recently but I'm now under the employ of an overbearing north county tyrant and it blows but hey, the bills get paid and theres a roof over my head.

However ! I just opened up a new bar/restaurant in my neighborhood and I'm very excited about it : )

Im no Thomas Keller or Sukiyabashi Jiro but I think that I am pretty decent in the kitchen. I cook a lot but dont expect me to whip up a six course meal for you unless I think youre cool and worth the time.

I'm not obsessed with sports such as football, baseball or basketball. I'm painfully aware that this is very odd for a guy to say but, it is what it is. Not quite sure what happened in PE classes back in jr high. I'm not gay in case you were wondering. I can and will watch games but alcohol would absolutely need to be present.
What I’m doing with my life
Consuming a lot of chili peppers and getting financially compensated to write bar and restaurant reviews.
I’m really good at
Parallel parking and driving in reverse at high speeds.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Is that Im Asian.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books by dudes with last names such as Koontz, King, Brown, Patterson, Grisham, Ludlum. Action, suspense, fiction.

Godfather I and II. Part III doesnt exist to me. Goodfellas. Swingers. Casino. Bourne series. 007. Quentin T films, Star Wars 4,5 and 6 only. British gangster movies also.

Last show that I saw was a stand up comedian that was part Indian part hermaphrodite. I do go to plays, symphonies and operas when I get free or extremely discounted tickets.

I like old school punk rock. Misfits, Black Flag, Sex Pistols, NIN, Minor Threat, DK, Rancid, Clash, Ramones etc etc. 50s and 60s pop and just about everything else except for country. Last music show I saw was at The Casbah but Ill go see local bands at Soda, Void, Tin Can, Til Two or Tower Bar.

There are a lot of good restaurants out there and also way too many bad ones. Lets just say Japanese, Vietnamese and French are the top three but I like just about everything except for vegan stuff.

I'm also a chef, meaning I've made food and people have actually paid money for it in a restaurant setting with servers, bussers, bartenders and all that other stuff.

By the way, any eatery thats been featured on the food network or the travel channel is probably a place that I will not want to go to.
The six things I could never do without
1 IPAs
2 Japanese tapas.
3 Good friends.
4 Spices.
5 Game of Thrones.
6 Irish whiskey.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How my cat is plotting to kill me and trying to decide how I really feel about the gentrification of my neighborhood.
On a typical Friday night I am
Crying myself to sleep because this site is so demoralizing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Asian drivers terrify me. Especially when they've had way too much popcorn chicken and boba.
You should message me if
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Youre a woman. Youre not stuck up. You are genuinely nice to restaurant workers and bartenders and you know the difference between your and youre.