The role of men in contraception

Published: May 28, 2011

The only way to move forward in terms of family planning is to engage men in it.

In a constitutionally Islamic country riddled with contrasts, far away from the welfare model, perpetually confused on nearly all critical issues ranging from foreign policy to population planning, infamous for low status of women and girls and their social exclusion, and characterised by the dramatic capture of power elites in politics and development fields both, one wonders — what does the male role or involvement in family planning mean to Pakistan?

I tried to come up with a plausible definition of male involvement in family planning in 1999 after noticing its absence in the literature. It reads:

Male involvement in Family Planning (FP) includes, an interest of men in FP issues (indicated by their knowledge about it), a positive attitude towards it (indicated by their acceptance or approval), willingness to share responsibility for it (indicated by their actual adoption) and a willingness to share the power of decision making (indicated by them being prepared to discuss it with their spouses).

Contrary to the popular assumption, men are interested in matters of contraception. Worldwide scientific research has demonstrated that the following four reasons are most often given for involving men in reproductive health including FP:

1) Expanding the range of contraceptive options.

2) Supporting women’s contraceptive use.

3) Preventing the spread of sexually transmitted infections.

4) Use the forum of reproductive health programmes to promote gender equality and the transformation of men’s and women’s social roles.

One can argue with the effectiveness and/or legitimacy of the reasons as a justification for including men, but it remains a fact that the implications of male involvement are broader than are often noted.

In developed countries, the efforts to involve men began as early as the late 1970s, with attempts to make women-oriented family planning clinics more inviting to men.

In developing countries, the tendency has been to exclude men from reproductive health especially FP work, other than vasectomy or condom distribution. Ironically, condoms are mostly distributed to women in South Asia rather than to men who still find it the hard to shop for them.

Pakistan, which is a signatory to nearly 12,000 international conventions and treaties, is also officially fully committed to the landmark International Conference on Population and Development’s (ICPD) Goals and Targets 1994, that called for an understanding of men’s and women’s joint responsibilities, so that they could become equal partners in public and private life, and to encourage and enable men to take responsibility for their sexual and reproductive behaviour.

Health stays in the red

Pakistan’s Maternal and Child Health indicators remain extremely poor as 25,000 to 30,000 women die from complications of pregnancy and child birth every year. Millions more suffer ill health and disability. One million children die before the age of five while 16,000 die in the first month after birth.

The health policy of 2009 by the Ministry of Health has clearly acknowledged that, in spite of some improvement since 1990, the health of the people of Pakistan lags far behind the rest of South Asia and the improvements have not kept up with the increasing GDP.

The magnitude of fissures in our social development sectors makes Pakistan a model case for economic growth without development, with an under-performing health care delivery system too. Further, the socio-cultural determinants of health, such as illiteracy, unemployment, gender inequality, social exclusion, food insecurity, rapid urbanisation, environmental degradation, natural disasters and lack of access to safe water and sanitation, aggravate Pakistan’s poor health status.

Though these problems are recognised by the public officials in health and population sectors, they are yet to be addressed through realistic budgetary allocations and people-centred policies.

The performance indicators of the population programme, especially those in terms of strengthening family planning programmes to achieve its coverage and effectiveness and others relating to changing approach to delivering family planning services and improving the overall status of women and girls (irrespective of the lack of sharp focus on this particular dimension and adhocisms of such projects ) are dismal.

Increasing male involvement

Since ICPD 1994 till date, a number of public, private and voluntary sector initiatives have addressed the issue of male involvement in family planning and reproductive health in Pakistan, the sixth most populous country, and that too within the patriarchal society and bureaucratic apparatus that undoubtedly fosters gender biases at institutional level and consciously or unconsciously adheres to the theory and practice of social closures.

Despite all odds and losses, the only option is to move forward and that can be effectively achieved only by engaging men (who, whether feminists like it or not, are decision makers both at the household and policy levels) in such a way as to create new heights of empowerment for women rather than dependencies. There are no short cuts or magical recipes.

However, one starting point could be to popularise common knowledge or simple scientific doctrines that would ultimately lead to a transformation in the concept of hegemonic masculinity.

If this begins to happen, our young women will not suffer because of the demand of sons, and may be many mothers in Pakistan would no more be punished physically and emotionally or both against the “crime” of giving birth to daughters.

Dr Rakhshinda Perveen

Dr Rakhshinda Perveen

A civic entrepreneur and a non-elite gender activist.


  • Tahir

    For married men in poor countries, control over their fertility is essential from an economic standpoint (to stay out of poverty) and to avoid the up to 1-in-6 chance of losing their wives to death in childbirth. Cultural shifts and urbanization are also influencing desired family size. Pakistani men needs to be educated for thier positive contribuntion. Is “Withdrawal” not an indirect contraceptive, so why afraid of others?Recommend

  • Nida S.

    I agree. A few years ago, I was volunteering at PIMS in Islamabad, and I used to accompany doctors on their daily rounds. There was a woman who had just given birth to her 5th child, and she was in a really bad condition. She suffered from severe post-natal depression every time she gave birth, to the point that she would try to take her own life. The doctor I was with that day repeatedly asked her why she was doing this to herself and why she did not use contraception. Her answer was that her husband did not allow it. I remember at that point the doctor got so angry, he ordered her tubes to be tied up and said he would speak to the husband himself. I really hope he knocked some sense into the husband. Recommend

  • Disco Molvi

    The day the ‘religiously sanctioned’ mindset which teaches women that they are not in control of their bodies, instead their husbands are; when this is challenged, disowned and ultimately done away with, only then can there be hope of practicing of contraceptionRecommend

  • Columbus

    in countries like us, for the poor only economical entertainment is his wife and vice versa …. now think how much emphasis shall be given on educating male and female here on this issue…Recommend

  • Khalid Rahim

    TV and SEX are two entertainments allowed as Islamic by our religious teachers! Any other
    entertainment such as musical concerts, theatre, joint sports, etc are taboo. Specially with the power failure and no TV what can the couple in the village do or in a high rise building?Recommend

  • waqas

    Mothers are instructed to feed their milk to new born till baby turned two years, so automatically the gap of 2 years is minimum,so a good muslim husband should try to grab this atleast.

    And its ALLAH who is (RAZIQ) and HE provides food to every living thing,but the point is the character building is parents duty and they should take enough time and space to build a good muslim pimarily,which eventually ll be a good citizen .

    To fulfill their materialistic needs is not the only job of the parents as in most of the families parents think it the sole responsibility.Recommend

  • rhealyn

    this is one of the big issue in some conservative and third world countries such as the Philippines, until now the issue of using contraceptive (RH BILL) is still in on the congress..Recommend

  • Aaeisha Qureshi

    Planning is allowed and always done by each and every person in every field of life.ALLAH has asked to lookafter your family ,its health, education and security.Males have more responsibility they have to look for the welfare as he is the decision maker.Decisions based on sound facts and evidence are always fruitful.Planning afamily is right of every male and female and . prevention is better than cure Family planning is cost effective and efficient way to improve the health of mother and child and thus less burden on men.Involving men is a good strategy. well informed men can make better decisionsRecommend

  • Jamil Ahmad Chitrali

    To me, we need to focus on integrating gender and Islam into Modernity and development. There were times when due to first hand information and direct contacts with the prophet numbers were counted more but its time now to revisit that thinking and focus more on quality and not quantity of muslims being produced. We also have to consider if Islam is only for men or women have thier share in it, if so, why not to encourage going to mosque with families. once this practice get started many things will get influenced….Recommend

  • Khalid Rahim

    @Jamil Ahmad Chitrali:
    Unfortunately the seeds that were sown by General Zia ul Haq and his coterie have now bloomed fully. Skill and Wisdom have been replaced by Egotism and Religion has lost it’s spiritual capacity to that of a commodity sold as pork barrel at the commodity exchange. In
    the context of contraception I am recluctant to shake hands for I find that half the males here give a limp downward hand depicting that they are impotent, the other half a stiff straight hand that does not grip your hand, indicating leave that to your imagination? Jamil
    we first have to reclaim the mosque from the usurpers of Islam.Recommend