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A lot of girls go through trouble trying to get a guy to go to a dance with them or like them in middle school. Here are some tips that could help you get your dream guy.



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    Check your personal style. Are you making the statement you wish to make or do you need to make some style adjustments? This might be as simple as ironing out the wrinkles or as complicated as coming up with new, fun ways to wear your existing clothes.
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    Don't try too hard, be yourself. That's the easiest and most sensible way to land a guy who is going to relate to the real you. Avoid going overboard to impress or act differently, it'll just embarrass him and cause him to keep away.
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    Make conversation. Find the brave inside of you to strike up a conversation and have a good chat. Talk about school, sports, teachers, whatever! If you miss this vital part of trying to get to know him, no amount of hair flicking, flirting or dropping binders in the hallway when he passes will cause him to feel impressed by you.
    • Ask him questions about his interests and hobbies outside of school.
    • Share a little information about what you're interested in too.
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    Keep your conversations simple and short. Work onto the longer ones later, for now just enough to be interesting.
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    Keep the flirting to a tolerable minimum. There's no need to overdo it and embarrass him in front of the others.
    • Avoid flirting with other guys in his presence. He'll just figure you're not the slightest bit interested.
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    Get on with your schoolwork, sports and other activities. He won't be impressed by someone whose marks dip or sporting performance falls short because you're too obsessed with him.
    • Staying on track with the things that are important to your development and future is more impressive than flirting or making ga-ga eyes all day. It'll also reassure him that you're not the clingy type. He'll appreciate the space you leave him.
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    Ask him out. However, don't pressure him or push him into going out with you; he won't. Don't keep asking until he says yes either––leave it be and let him think things over.
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    Ask if you can be friends if he's not interested in romance. If he says no to that, just shrug and say okay. He'll come around sooner or later. He might see how you didn't really care and really want you.



  • Remember when asking someone out, if they say no, say, "Oh, Thanks for your time. Sorry for bugging you."
  • Use subtle body language to show you're interested. If he mirrors you, he may be interested as well.
  • If he likes someone else, just act as if you don't care, then leave him alone about, but hint that you still like him, don't be outgoing about it either, just throw in a flirty line or two here and there.
  • If your friend knows you like him then she acts like you are totally into him and then acts like you hate him and she will stop, but don't be too afraid to let your friend know.
  • If he asked you to slow dance at a dance and he doesn't stop talking he probably likes you and that is his way of telling you
  • If it doesn't work out, it's not the end of your life. It's just a guy, hey, and your still in middle school. There will probably be many more guys In your life. We're young and were dumb, right?
  • If you are at school around him and his friends. Don't try to impress his friends, also be nice but don't flirt with your man's friends.
  • Don't brag about yourself as a form of trying to impress. It makes the guy think you're so self-centered and you definitely don't want that.
  • When you like a guy don't text him too much. Text him once and if he doesn't reply don't continue to bug him. That's a bad idea!
  • Make sure that if he says he doesn't like you, you don't break down in front of him. Show him that you can still live without him. Once he sees that he will see you as a confident girl and probably come back when the time is right.


  • Don't ever cry in front of him unless it's something you should really be sad about.
  • Don't hang around him too much,like if you have gym with him, act as if he isn't there.
  • Don't try making conversation with him if he doesn't want to talk, or is ignoring you.
  • If he's avoiding you, let him avoid you. Don't constantly try to be around him or his friends.

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