When Women Don't Like You

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You should feel embarrassment, anxiety, high blood pressure and all the rest of it when you hit on a girl you don't know because you're going up to a complete stranger. So that's not abnormal in itself. But if you're introverted and shy, the first thing you need to do is grow a personality. You need to take speech classes and then give talks on "The System." You also need to go to improv class and learn how to be funny. And you have to keep improving yourself until you calm down when talking to people about my material and making them laugh with my material.

Like I said before, pretty much every guy feels some sort of anxious discomfort when he's with a woman he likes. But if it's so bad you can't control your physical reactions and symptoms, you have to go and see someone who has a sheepskin on his wall. If the whole process is that painful for you, you should go and consult some type of professional counselor who can help you. On the other hand, I do know this: If you memorized "The System" and were able to get up and lecture on it in front of 100 people, one or two women in the audience would think you're cute and you'd be on your way.

change your attitude

Your third point is the saddest of all. Do you know what you've done here? You've given up hope. To you Psych majors, as long as you're breathing and you can get to the door to ring the bell, there's hope. But you have to change your Attitude. You have to look at the fact that you're in good health and you live in the greatest country that ever existed with a standard of living higher than anywhere else in the world. That's what counts.

Finally, you have to stop taking women to heart. Like Doctor Freud once said, "Your entire existence is wrapped up in whether or not they like you. That's nuts!"

Thinking that all females are going to reject you is a half-truth. Sure, the majority is going to reject you, but the majority of women reject most guys. But that doesn't mean you can't try. The feedback from women is negative for most guys. But the muddy water will clear as soon as you have the right education, which means you follow my strategies.

put the gun down

My friend, I'm a coach, not a shrink. In your case, there is the possibility that you have some deep, deep problems — no offense intended. Some of the things you talk about are borderline off the deep end. Those kinds of problems are not my area of expertise. So it's up to you to do what you need to do to get yourself straightened out.

Dupree, unload the gun, put it back in the drawer, and you'll be okay when you get the proper help and memorize "The System". Remember, guys: The key to women is to not take them personally.



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