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User avatar #300 - bustercaller (07/13/2013) [-]
I find this to be true but I find it more accurate to replace energy with honor
#340 to #300 - anonymous (07/13/2013) [-]
I think you've chosen the wrong word. honor is something that you have that others can't take away from you by judging you. I'm trying to think of a more appropriate word but it's proving difficult.
User avatar #346 to #340 - bustercaller (07/13/2013) [-]
You can lose honor. Try thinking about it with the synonyms: recognition; distinction; dignity & respect in mind. It is a broad word
User avatar #303 to #300 - mayormilkman (07/13/2013) [-]
User avatar #319 to #303 - bustercaller (07/13/2013) [-]
That is how I see it. When I am in a group that I do not know or someone I am not comfortable with, I feel as if they are naturally judging me about how I interact, what I say, my body, my body language & my eye contact. I feel as it they paint a picture of me that is not accurate and negative therefore taking away my honor leaving me with shame due to there perceived judgement of me. Which they then pass that judgement onto others who then also place that negative judgement on me. So I feel I can only fight back by judging them negatively or I just walk away and not be around them therefore protecting myself against their judgement. To me it's a form of bullying. But then you can also argue that how I act is a form of cowardice. I don't hate them for it though, it is what it is
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User avatar #326 to #317 - bustercaller (07/13/2013) [-]
My point exactly
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User avatar #348 to #342 - bustercaller (07/13/2013) [-]
I realise this. It just seemed to me that you proved my point above
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