Why Do Women Help Men Cheat?

Posted on August 25th, 2009

white-coupleOkay, I get it.  Men Cheat and there seem to be numerous reasons why men cheat.  But what I don’t get is why women help them with this.  What do women get out of a relationship with a man who is married or otherwise spoken for?  Are some women satisfied with a part time lover?  When in this type of relationship, as the other woman, what do you do on holidays?

I realize there must be something I am missing about this, as there are so many women out there who are willing to play this role.  I do not intend to be judgmental, but everyone should know my thoughts on Karma. You reap what you sow!  So all you other women out there, how will you feel when one day your husband finds himself another woman.

Why do men cheat? Because they Can.  Why can they? Because women give them options.  As Steve Harvey said in his book “Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man”, men love principle’s, get some.  Allowing yourself to be used in this way will almost never get you what you want.  Rarely will a man leave his wife for his mistress.  If you get the milk for free, why buy the cow.

When a man tells you that he and his wife have separated or that they stay together for the sake of the children don’t fall for it. Instead, tell him to give you a call when the situation has been resolved.  Obviously in the case of separation, if he is able to take you where he lives and you have all four phone numbers to reach him on day or night, then he may well be separated. Go for it!

There is another old saying that goes “Be careful how you catch a man, as it will be the same way you lose him”.

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