Thursday, December 16, 2004

Jealousy: Intense Love or Insecurity?



Update on my friend.


Anonymous said...

"Bottom line: jealousy, insecurity and lack of trust, these things show the level of maturity a person has when it comes to a relationship. Unfortunately, maturity doesn't come with age nor intelligence."----well said.

Marriage counseling might help pero mukang too late na.

Cerridwen said...

if only they have the senses to know and realize that there is no need to question for reason, but the necessity to understand. When you love a person, you assume they trust you would do anything for them and that they assumed the same. Anything in moderation is fine. DO it in excess and it becomes a poison - it kills....

HanAgiRL said...

I've always believed that men/women that are seloso are like that because they are what I call, "thinkers, doers". The get jelouse because gawain din cguro nila yan, if not in the present, maybe in their past. But really, there can be other factors like fear of getting hurt, a trauma in one or all their past relationships, etc. It really sucks to be in a relationship with a partner that is super seloso, kasi everthing else follows eh, like paranoia, constant nagging,...hay.

KiKaY DaW said...

aTe FioNsKiii: mga taong alang self confidence at alam na ang fangit ng kanilang ugali ang mga ganyan! laki ng chance iiwan cla kc sooner or later na marealize nung nagkagusto sa knila na peke cla, d pla cla sweet tlaga or mabait o understanding, kaya ayun nag re reflect un insecurity nla lalo 2loy cla iiwan muwahahahahahha kc nman tanda na ng iba dyan asal teenager pa grabeh!

fionski said...

Thanks to Anonymous, Cerridwen, Hanagirl and Kikay for their insights. I can see how different people have different takes on this issue.
Kikay nakikita ko pa lang at Ate Fionskiii mo natatawa na ako. Hehehe.

CHICAY said...

ate true friend ka talaga.. anyways i respect everyone's opinion but i do not concur not dissent. iba iba ang tao lets just pray for her/him.