 jimparker said: ↑ I kinda feel like this guy is going to feel quite attacked right now. I'm with TheMaster000 on this. IMO get rid of the porn (and therefore MO to it). Again, just in my opinion - there is nothing wrong with wanting to dress in women's clothing and that in it self shouldn't disgust you. What you need to be sure about is that porn isn't confusing your sexuality through wanting to try something more and more extreme to get a new buzz. Quit porn and quit thinking about porn if you do masturbate. Give the dressing up a break for a bit if you like and see how you feel after a decent break from porn. Good luck with your own journey oh, and the guy is probably not right for you at this stage - you need to be sure who you are. Click to expand... AGuyInHisBestYears said: ↑ I would also say to take it easy on him. There's nothing wrong with this kink or fetish, and I instead think you should work on trying to get comfortable in your own skin. How do you know that it's porn induced? I'd recommend you go to a real therapist to talk this through as I see someone that's inherently insecure in his own self and his sexual life. Does porn or masturbation have any other effects you perceive as negative other than a feeling of shame over your fetishes? If not, then I don't see this necessarily as a PMO problem. I think abstination from fetishes and denial just because rest of society perceive them as negative is in the long term more harmful than embracing it, feel that there's no fault with it, and controlling your life from there on forward. Click to expand... 