 I'd say just use the second one for the sake of not getting into some kind of argument over it even if the original text isn't very nice to begin with. It's a sad state of affairs how "hawingtowalkoneggshells-ish" the fantranslations scene has been forced to become. In any case, given it's just a minor modification that affects only a single line of text, I'd release two patches. One with the literal translation and another more friendly with sensitive people. 