Unable to train fastpitch_finetune with nemo:1.8.0
When I try to run `experiments/tts/fastpitch_finetune.py` with `fastpitch_align_v1.05.yml` with `ddp` on multiple GPUs the training immediately crashes with the following trace
```
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/trainer/trainer.py", line 721, in _call_and_handle_interrupt
    return trainer_fn(*args, **kwargs)
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/trainer/trainer.py", line 809, in _fit_impl
    results = self._run(model, ckpt_path=self.ckpt_path)
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/trainer/trainer.py", line 1234, in _run
    results = self._run_stage()
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/trainer/trainer.py", line 1321, in _run_stage
    return self._run_train()
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/trainer/trainer.py", line 1351, in _run_train
    self.fit_loop.run()
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/loops/base.py", line 204, in run
    self.advance(*args, **kwargs)
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/loops/fit_loop.py", line 269, in advance
    self._outputs = self.epoch_loop.run(self._data_fetcher)
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/loops/base.py", line 204, in run
    self.advance(*args, **kwargs)
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/loops/epoch/training_epoch_loop.py", line 231, in advance
    self.trainer._call_callback_hooks("on_train_batch_end", batch_end_outputs, batch, batch_idx, **extra_kwargs)
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/trainer/trainer.py", line 1628, in _call_callback_hooks
    self._on_train_batch_end(*args, **kwargs)
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/trainer/trainer.py", line 1660, in _on_train_batch_end
    callback.on_train_batch_end(self, self.lightning_module, outputs, batch, batch_idx)
  File "/workspace/nemo/nemo/utils/exp_manager.py", line 144, in on_train_batch_end
    self._on_batch_end("train_step_timing", pl_module)
  File "/workspace/nemo/nemo/utils/exp_manager.py", line 138, in _on_batch_end
    pl_module.log(name, self.timer[name], on_step=True, on_epoch=False)
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/core/lightning.py", line 381, in log
    value = apply_to_collection(value, numbers.Number, self.__to_tensor)
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/utilities/apply_func.py", line 99, in apply_to_collection
    return function(data, *args, **kwargs)
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/core/lightning.py", line 515, in __to_tensor
    return torch.tensor(value, device=self.device)
RuntimeError: CUDA error: an illegal memory access was encountered
CUDA kernel errors might be asynchronously reported at some other API call,so the stacktrace below might be incorrect.
For debugging consider passing CUDA_LAUNCH_BLOCKING=1.

During handling of the above exception, another exception occurred:

Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "examples/tts/fastpitch_finetune.py", line 41, in <module>
    main()  # noqa pylint: disable=no-value-for-parameter
  File "/workspace/nemo/nemo/core/config/hydra_runner.py", line 104, in wrapper
    _run_hydra(
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/hydra/_internal/utils.py", line 377, in _run_hydra
    run_and_report(
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/hydra/_internal/utils.py", line 214, in run_and_report
    raise ex
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/hydra/_internal/utils.py", line 211, in run_and_report
    return func()
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/hydra/_internal/utils.py", line 378, in <lambda>
    lambda: hydra.run(
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/hydra/_internal/hydra.py", line 111, in run
    _ = ret.return_value
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/hydra/core/utils.py", line 233, in return_value
    raise self._return_value
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/hydra/core/utils.py", line 160, in run_job
    ret.return_value = task_function(task_cfg)
  File "examples/tts/fastpitch_finetune.py", line 37, in main
    trainer.fit(model)
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/trainer/trainer.py", line 768, in fit
    self._call_and_handle_interrupt(
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/trainer/trainer.py", line 736, in _call_and_handle_interrupt
    self._teardown()
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/trainer/trainer.py", line 1298, in _teardown
    self.strategy.teardown()
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/strategies/ddp.py", line 447, in teardown
    super().teardown()
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/strategies/parallel.py", line 134, in teardown
    super().teardown()
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/strategies/strategy.py", line 444, in teardown
    optimizers_to_device(self.optimizers, torch.device("cpu"))
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/utilities/optimizer.py", line 27, in optimizers_to_device
    optimizer_to_device(opt, device)
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/utilities/optimizer.py", line 33, in optimizer_to_device
    optimizer.state[p] = apply_to_collection(v, torch.Tensor, move_data_to_device, device)
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/utilities/apply_func.py", line 107, in apply_to_collection
    v = apply_to_collection(
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/utilities/apply_func.py", line 99, in apply_to_collection
    return function(data, *args, **kwargs)
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/utilities/apply_func.py", line 354, in move_data_to_device
    return apply_to_collection(batch, dtype=dtype, function=batch_to)
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/utilities/apply_func.py", line 99, in apply_to_collection
    return function(data, *args, **kwargs)
  File "/opt/conda/lib/python3.8/site-packages/pytorch_lightning/utilities/apply_func.py", line 347, in batch_to
    data_output = data.to(device, **kwargs)
RuntimeError: CUDA error: an illegal memory access was encountered
CUDA kernel errors might be asynchronously reported at some other API call,so the stacktrace below might be incorrect.
For debugging consider passing CUDA_LAUNCH_BLOCKING=1.
```

This does not happen if I run on a single GPU.