Major difference in train and validation loss for the same data while training tacotron2
**Describe the bug**

The validation loss is very high compared to training loss even though the data used for training and validation is the same.  Training loss for my dataset is at 0.328 after 70 epochs whereas validation loss is ~16.

**Steps/Code to reproduce bug**

This is the config used - 

```yaml
name: Tacotron2-Exp
sample_rate: 22050
# <PAD>, <BOS>, <EOS> will be added by the tacotron2.py script
labels: ['ट', 'ॉ', 'प', ' ', 'न', '्', 'य', 'ू', 'ज', ':', 'द', 'स', 'ब', 'ड़', 'ी', 'ख', 'र', 'े', 'ं', ',', 'आ', 'ि', 'ह', 'ु', 'ई', 'ै', 'इ', 'ध', 'ा', 'व', 'ो', 'म', 'ग', 'क', 'भ', 'ल', 'फ', '।', 'घ', 'त', 'ओ', 'च', 'ड', 'ौ', 'ष', 'ठ', 'ए', '.', 'उ', 'श', 'थ', '़', 'अ', 'ढ', 'ऐ', 'औ', 'छ', '-', "'", '!', 'ण', '(', ')', 'झ', 'ञ', 'ऊ', 'ृ', '[', ']', '?', 'ऑ', 'ः', 'ढ़', ';', 'ऍ', 'ज़', 'E', 'V', 'M', 'X', 'C', 'L', 'U', 'S', 'I', 'ङ', 'क़', 'O', 'A', 'B', 'ँ', 'ॅ', '*', 'J', 'N', 'D', 'H', 'G', '2', '/', '5', 'T', 'P', 'o', 'K', '0', 'ऋ', '8', '7', '–', '3', '6', 'n', 'e', 't', 'h', 'r', 'f', 'i', 'v', 's', 'ऩ', '9', 'फ़', 'R', '4', 'य़', 'W', 'b', '¨', 'a', 'l', 'c', 'k', 'y', '@', 'F', 'Y', '1']
n_fft: 1024
n_mels: 80
fmax: 8000
n_stride: 256
pad_value: -11.52
train_dataset: ???
validation_datasets: ???

model:
  labels: ${labels}
  train_ds:
    dataset:
      _target_: "nemo.collections.asr.data.audio_to_text.AudioToCharDataset"
      manifest_filepath: ${train_dataset}
      max_duration: null
      min_duration: 0.1
      trim: false
      int_values: false
      normalize: true
      sample_rate: ${sample_rate}
      # bos_id: 66
      # eos_id: 67
      # pad_id: 68  These parameters are added automatically in Tacotron2
    dataloader_params:
      drop_last: false
      shuffle: true
      batch_size: 32
      num_workers: 4


  validation_ds:
    dataset:
      _target_: "nemo.collections.asr.data.audio_to_text.AudioToCharDataset"
      manifest_filepath: ${validation_datasets}
      max_duration: null
      min_duration: 0.1
      int_values: false
      normalize: true
      sample_rate: ${sample_rate}
      trim: false
      # bos_id: 66
      # eos_id: 67
      # pad_id: 68  These parameters are added automatically in Tacotron2
    dataloader_params:
      drop_last: false
      shuffle: false
      batch_size: 32
      num_workers: 4

  preprocessor:
    _target_: nemo.collections.asr.parts.preprocessing.features.FilterbankFeatures
    dither: 0.0
    nfilt: ${n_mels}
    frame_splicing: 1
    highfreq: ${fmax}
    log: true
    log_zero_guard_type: clamp
    log_zero_guard_value: 1e-05
    lowfreq: 0
    mag_power: 1.0
    n_fft: ${n_fft}
    n_window_size: 1024
    n_window_stride: ${n_stride}
    normalize: null
    pad_to: 16
    pad_value: ${pad_value}
    preemph: null
    sample_rate: ${sample_rate}
    window: hann

  encoder:
    _target_: nemo.collections.tts.modules.tacotron2.Encoder
    encoder_kernel_size: 5
    encoder_n_convolutions: 3
    encoder_embedding_dim: 512

  decoder:
    _target_: nemo.collections.tts.modules.tacotron2.Decoder
    decoder_rnn_dim: 1024
    encoder_embedding_dim: ${model.encoder.encoder_embedding_dim}
    gate_threshold: 0.5
    max_decoder_steps: 1000
    n_frames_per_step: 1  # currently only 1 is supported
    n_mel_channels: ${n_mels}
    p_attention_dropout: 0.1
    p_decoder_dropout: 0.1
    prenet_dim: 256
    prenet_p_dropout: 0.5
    # Attention parameters
    attention_dim: 128
    attention_rnn_dim: 1024
    # AttentionLocation Layer parameters
    attention_location_kernel_size: 31
    attention_location_n_filters: 32
    early_stopping: true

  postnet:
    _target_: nemo.collections.tts.modules.tacotron2.Postnet
    n_mel_channels: ${n_mels}
    p_dropout: 0.5
    postnet_embedding_dim: 512
    postnet_kernel_size: 5
    postnet_n_convolutions: 5

  optim:
    name: adam
    lr: 1e-3
    weight_decay: 1e-6

    # scheduler setup
    sched:
      name: CosineAnnealing
      min_lr: 1e-5

trainer:
  gpus: 1 # number of gpus
  max_epochs: ???
  num_nodes: 1
  accelerator: ddp
  accumulate_grad_batches: 1
  checkpoint_callback: False  # Provided by exp_manager
  logger: False  # Provided by exp_manager
  gradient_clip_val: 1.0
  flush_logs_every_n_steps: 1000
  log_every_n_steps: 200
  check_val_every_n_epoch: 5

exp_manager:
  exp_dir: null
  name: ${name}
  create_tensorboard_logger: True
  create_checkpoint_callback: True
```

And this is the command used to train - 

```sh
python3 tacotron2.py train_dataset=data.json validation_datasets=data.json trainer.gpus=-1 trainer.max_epochs=200
```

**Expected behavior**

I am not sure why there is such a huge difference in loss values. 

**Environment overview**

 - Environment location: Bare-metal
 - Method of NeMo install: From source using `./reinstall.sh`

**Environment details**

- OS version: Ubuntu 20.04
- PyTorch version: 1.10.1
- Python version: 3.8.10
