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************* Module nemo.collections.diffusion.train
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Thank you for improving NeMo's documentation!
# What does this PR do ?

Add STDiT(Spatial-Temporal DiT) model for nemo training. Support megatron parallel pattern in training pipeline.

**Collection**: [Note which collection this PR will affect]

# Changelog 
- Add stdit model
- Add stdit layer
- Add stdit embedding 
- Add stdit training factory function
- Support tp/sp/cp/dsp/pp/fsdp parallel pattern

# Usage
* You can potentially add a usage example below

```python
# Add a code snippet demonstrating how to use this 
```

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