specaug speedup
# What does this PR do ?

Faster implementation of non-numba specaug

**Collection**: ASR

# Changelog 

Rather than repeatedly modify the features tensor in-place, build a mask and fill the features tensor once. By my measurements, about 20x faster on GPU.

It could be faster still, but it gets hard to compare output exactly to the original implementation to verify correctness.

Also, the original implementation seems to be biased away from the upper freq bins, but again fixing it would be make it impossible to compare the outputs to the original implementation.

# Usage
Running this snippet will run both the original and this implementation, verify similar output, and print latencies.

<details>
  <summary>Test snippet</summary>

```python
import random
import time
import torch

from nemo.collections.asr.parts.submodules.spectr_augment import SpecAugment
from nemo.core.classes import typecheck


# Copy of original `SpecAugment.forward` for comparison
@typecheck()
@torch.no_grad()
def forward_original(self, input_spec, length):
    sh = input_spec.shape

    for idx in range(sh[0]):
        for i in range(self.freq_masks):
            x_left = self._rng.randint(0, sh[1] - self.freq_width)

            w = self._rng.randint(0, self.freq_width)

            input_spec[idx, x_left : x_left + w, :] = self.mask_value

        for i in range(self.time_masks):
            if self.adaptive_temporal_width:
                time_width = max(1, int(length[idx] * self.time_width))
            else:
                time_width = self.time_width

            y_left = self._rng.randint(0, max(1, length[idx] - time_width))

            w = self._rng.randint(0, time_width)

            input_spec[idx, :, y_left : y_left + w] = self.mask_value

    return input_spec


seed = 12345
batch_size = 128
feat_dim = 80
max_length = 1000
device = "cuda"
num_iterations = 100

# Generate some inputs
spec = torch.randn(size=[batch_size, feat_dim, max_length], device=device)
lengths = torch.randint(low=max_length // 10, high=max_length, size=[batch_size], device=device)
# Usually, at least one element in a batch is the max length.
lengths[0] = max_length
print(f"Testing with input features shape {spec.shape}")

# This version has the new forward
augmentor: SpecAugment = SpecAugment(
    freq_masks=2, time_masks=10, freq_width=27, time_width=0.05, rng=random.Random(seed)
).to(device)
# cache the first output for comparison (need to be careful of RNG values)
first_output_new = augmentor(input_spec=spec, length=lengths)

# Warm up
augmented_spec = augmentor(input_spec=spec, length=lengths)
# Loop and record time
start = time.time()
for _ in range(num_iterations):
    augmented_spec = augmentor(input_spec=spec, length=lengths)
    if device == "cuda":
        torch.cuda.synchronize()
stop = time.time()
mean_duration = (stop - start) / num_iterations
print(f"Mean duration for new implementation: {mean_duration * 1000:0.1f} ms")

# Re-instantiate a spec aug with same RNG
augmentor: SpecAugment = SpecAugment(
    freq_masks=2, time_masks=10, freq_width=27, time_width=0.05, rng=random.Random(seed)
).to(device)
# Set class's forward method to original one
setattr(SpecAugment, "forward", forward_original)
# Get baseline output. Note that the original implementation modifies in-place and returns a reference to `spec`, so
# use a clone of `spec` since we'll call forward some more for getting times
first_output_old = augmentor(input_spec=spec.clone(), length=lengths)

# Warm up
augmented_spec = augmentor(input_spec=spec, length=lengths)
# Loop and record time
start = time.time()
for _ in range(num_iterations):
    augmented_spec = augmentor(input_spec=spec, length=lengths)
    if device == "cuda":
        torch.cuda.synchronize()
stop = time.time()
mean_duration = (stop - start) / num_iterations
print(f"Mean duration for original specaug: {mean_duration * 1000:0.1f} ms")

# Compare the output of each module. Can use hard tolerance since op is a constant fill.
print("Asserting old and new augmentations are all close...")
torch.testing.assert_close(actual=first_output_new, expected=first_output_old, rtol=0.0, atol=0.0)
print("Old and new outputs match")

```

</details>

Expected output:

```text
# With GPU
Testing with input features shape torch.Size([128, 80, 1000])
Mean duration for new implementation: 5.0 ms
Mean duration for original specaug: 100.1 ms
Asserting old and new augmentations are all close...
Old and new outputs match

# with CPU
Testing with input features shape torch.Size([128, 80, 1000])
Mean duration for new implementation: 8.5 ms
Mean duration for original specaug: 42.5 ms
Asserting old and new augmentations are all close...
Old and new outputs match
```

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