XCode Reference Type - Relative to Project
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I need to set the reference type as relative to project in my xcode project when i add another project to it. The problem i am having is that i dont find the "Reference Type" command/tick box anywhere on the screen. I am using xcode 4.3.3 and maybe this has changed because in the tutorial i am using to create this project it simply says set the reference type relative to the project but i cannot do so. Any help greatly appreaciated. all i see is the following - 

    1. COpy Items to destinations group folder (if needed)
    2. Create groups for any added folders
    3. Create folder references for any added folders
    4. Add targets to - "My projectname"

Any help appreciated
